I had a dream that my ex-husband, who married his mistress after our divorce, was living with me in an older, quaint farmhouse. We had different names than our real names. We had people staying with us in our home and he and I shared a bedroom as if we were still married. We hit it off really well with one of the younger couples staying with us and enjoyed spending time with them. Later in the dream, we discovered that they had the same (new) names as us (Tom and Lori). Upon further observation, we realized that the couple was our "past" selves and we were not only our "present" selves but our "future" selves as well.
This dream appears to be a reflection of unresolved emotions and a desire for a sense of closure or understanding. The presence of your ex-husband and his mistress in the dream suggests lingering feelings of attachment or unresolved issues related to the divorce. The fact that you are living together in an older, quaint farmhouse could symbolize a return to a simpler or more nostalgic time in your relationship.
The use of different names for both of you may represent a desire for a fresh start or a sense of reinvention. Sharing a bedroom as though you are still married could indicate a longing for emotional intimacy or a wish to recapture the connection you once had.
The presence of the younger couple and the enjoyment of their company may symbolize a desire for new experiences and connections. The fact that they have the same names as both your past and future selves suggests a merging of different aspects of your identity and a recognition of the interconnectedness of your past, present, and future.
Overall, this dream may indicate a need for reconciliation with your past and a desire for a sense of wholeness and growth. It may be beneficial to reflect on these emotions and consider if there are any unresolved issues or feelings that need to be addressed in order to move forward in your life.